19 Struggles Of Having An Outgoing Personality But Actually Being Introverted

When I made my own post about being an Extroverted Introvert (yes it’s really a thing) it was mostly so others can understand me better. To show that if I’m ignoring you, it’s nothing personal, even though it may be intentional. What I didn’t imagine is that I would expose myself to others like me, and it has been an interesting experience

Introversion Effect

Like many categorizing systems, the separatist thinking behind them attempts to firmly place us in one container or another.  The flaw in these types of systems is that they don’t always take into account the middle areas of the spectrum.  And any system is just that: a spectrum.  I’ve long stated with unequivocal certainty that I’m introverted.  My friends, however, look at me askance, because I’m actually very fun-loving and outgoing when I need to be.  So on that introvert/extravert spectrum, I fall somewhere to the introverted side, but exhibit limited extroverted tendencies.  Here is an article found on Thought Catalog by Brianna West that I have updated to reflect this:

1. You’re not anti-social, you’re selectively social. It’s not that you don’t like going out, it’s that you are very choosy about when, where, and for how long.

2. At any given point, you have one (maybe two)…

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